insights

Sometimes we need a little reminding.

*during your daily encounters with others, remember that you never know what issues they might be dealing with behind closed doors. most days, we are able to leave our problems at the door when we arrive, but some days we aren't that strong. next time someone is a little less than pleasant with you, be a little extra kind...you just might make their day.

*be patient. we all have our struggles and we all have our fortes. the only stupid questions are the ones that don't get asked. so next time someone asks you one, take it as a compliment--they obviously think you are smart enough to ask you in the first place--and help in whatever way you can.

*working in the service industry for the last 6 years of my life has taught me nothing if not this: the system is not perfect, and as soon as you accept that, life will suddenly become a lot less stressful. no one ever died because they had to wait in line or their food took 15 minutes to be made instead of 10...

*when we live with regrets, we admit that that period of time was a waste. instead, fix whatever went awry and take it as a learning experience. as long as it doesn't kill you, you'll come out stronger in the end.

*and finally. (And I know how cliche it is...) life only comes around once and it really is as short as they say. when an opportunity presents itself, think very carefully before turning it down--you may never get that chance again. a little life economics for you: if your benefits ultimately outweigh your costs, life is certain to be a lot more fulfilling.


Just a little mid-afternoon insight for your viewing pleasure. Although I wrote these as little personal reminders, I hope anyone who might read this can benefit, as well.